Re: boost
the rod pulls on the diaphragm in the wastegate. The spring is what the rod pulls against normally, otherwise the diaphragm gets inflated by the boost from the solenoid.
Your diaphragm could be totally shot, or your lever inside could have seized.
Test the diaphragm by getting a vacuum pump on the nipple going to the actuator and see if it moves. If that is ok then you might have a seized wastegate inside the housing. How easy is it for you to turn the wastgate on the turbo? It should move real easy.
That is what I had but the opposite way round - I had mine seized open so made no boost.
If that's the case then you are looking at a new turbo, or a totally external w/g setup with external boost controller. For what it's worth, they are generally much better controlled anyway. Search for Greddy Profec Spec B II.
Hope you find the problem!