InvisiBill
Active member
I'm a moderator on another board, so I know what it's like... I don't know what it is, but I like to help people. Maybe it just strokes my ego knowing something that they didn't. Well, whatever it is, it's there. If I give back to the community (by making hood latch guards or answering newbie questions or whatever), I feel like I'm sort of earning the help I get from everyone else too.
But like the others said, after a certain point you just give up. People kept asking the same few questions over and over, so they combined them and all the answers into one big FAQ. One place, all the common questions answered. Then nobody reads it.
If you gather up all this widespread info and put it one easy package, and people still don't look it up themselves, why would you think they're going to bother reading your answer? My desire to help the person is directly proportional to how hard they seem to be trying to figure it out.
I'm a newbie to car stuff in general, so I ask for as simple an explanation as possible. But I realize that most of this knowledge is aquired over years through lots of trial and error. There's just no way someone could tell you everything you possibly need to know. Even if they could, you'd have to be able to understand it all too. Some people just don't get things that easily.
In short, I try to be as helpful as possible, but sometimes it's just too much and I have to give up.
But like the others said, after a certain point you just give up. People kept asking the same few questions over and over, so they combined them and all the answers into one big FAQ. One place, all the common questions answered. Then nobody reads it.
If you gather up all this widespread info and put it one easy package, and people still don't look it up themselves, why would you think they're going to bother reading your answer? My desire to help the person is directly proportional to how hard they seem to be trying to figure it out.
I'm a newbie to car stuff in general, so I ask for as simple an explanation as possible. But I realize that most of this knowledge is aquired over years through lots of trial and error. There's just no way someone could tell you everything you possibly need to know. Even if they could, you'd have to be able to understand it all too. Some people just don't get things that easily.
In short, I try to be as helpful as possible, but sometimes it's just too much and I have to give up.